“Your gaydar isn’t off if they shop at Aldo…”
Actually, if a guy shops at Aldo that’s pretty gay. I just confirmed that with the gay guy sitting across from me.That annoys me. It was a male who said it, and I can’t help but think, “Really? Someone is gay if they shop at Aldo?” Shut the fuck up and sit the fuck down. I’ve dated guys who wore girl pants. I’ve liked guys who wore guyliner. Heck, male comedians are open enough to kiss each other, but be straight. I’ve also dated someone who had mostly gay friends, and people thought he was gay. Nope, he just has gay friends.
Where you shop, where you hang out, who you hang out with… all of that stuff doesn’t define your sexuality.
Let me also say I’ve done my share of making out w/girls. I am not a lesbian, I just think it’s fun to makeout with hot people. And no, I don’t do it to gain the attention of males - because I’ve done this at gay/lesbian bars where no one gave a damn.
I still stand by my motto, do what you want within reason. Shop at Aldo if you like their damn shoes - gay, straight, tranny, confused individual, talking bear - whatever.
